Category: Life

In our search for apartments, Jay and I have scoured the likes of Kijiji, Craigslist, and aggregates such as PadMapper. So far, three of the places to which we’ve enquired have turned out to be scams.

The story is always the same. The person is now out of the country, and has the only set of keys with them. As such you can view the outside of the apartment, not the inside. They’ll arrange to ship you the keys though, I assume in exchange for a large fee. Jay is busy playing with one of the scammers.

My initial email:

Hi there,

I saw your ad on Craigslist for the one bedroom condo on George street. We’re a young professional couple looking for a new home in downtown Ottawa, and we’re very much interested in your condo. When would it be available? Could we arrange a viewing?

Thank you,
Julien McArdle

The reply:

Hello Julien,

I got your mail in regards to my apartment for rent and thanks for your interest/inquiry in renting my apartment. Firstly, I want you to know that I’m not given my apartment for rent just because of money reason alone but due to my transfer of work to west Africa. I’m an X-RAY WELDER UNDER SHIP BUILDING, I have been working with nasco ship building here in the country, but have just been transferred to Niger dock Nigeria PLC. I left country with hope that I will be coming back in a month’s time but right now the company have asked me to stay for 2yrs under contract with them, that’s why I have made up my mind to put up my apartment for rent, but I will like you to keep the apartment for me well okay just like yours, okay. I want to let you know that the apartment is available for rent anytime, you can easily go there and check it, but the issue is that you will not be able to check inside of the apartment, so through the address you will provide for me which I will use to send you the keys and the documents to you through DHL COURIER SERVICE and It will be home delivery. I appreciate your expression and the apartment include cable /internet access, furnished, Central Air Conditioning, Laundry, Garbage Chute, Pets OK, cleaning service, dry cleaning,Heating, Electricity,etc and everything is already been furnished. And here is the application form below that you must answer to qualify for the rent of my apartment and I want you to know that I’m giving this apartment for rent base on trust and due to the way I read your reply to my apartment, hope you have a nice working day, in fact I will like to meet you when coming to visit you soonest. Also, Please let me get this answer and you can call me on my cell +2347053085884 OR 0112347053085884

RENT APPLICATION FORM

1)Your Full Name
2)Your Full Address & Phone Number
3)How old are you?
4)Are you married?
5)How many people will be living in the house?
6)Do you have a pet?
7)Do you have a car?
8)Occupation?
9)How long Do you intend to stay?

Looking forward to hearing from you with all this details so that I can have it in my file in case of issuing the receipt for you and contacting you and pets is allowed. Awaiting your reply so that we can discuss on how to get the documents and the keys to you, please we are giving you all this base on trust.

I will be waiting to read back from you as soon as possible.

Thanks and God Bless you.

Regards,
Wilfred

Another of the response was by an alleged woman in Manchester, and another yet in Cambridge, England. I responded to “Wilfred”, feigning interest. I’m curious to see if he’ll respond back.

Jay and I are on the hunt for a new apartment. We thought we had found the perfect place – downtown, 2 bedroom, reasonable price, and it included a washer/dryer!

Unfortunately though, the landlord favoured another couple. So off we go, keeping on looking. In other news, I handed in my 60 days notice to my current place.

I don’t really remember when it started. I want to say I was 15 or 16. In any case, at some point during that time the panic attacks began. Almost every night, I would be overcome with a sensation of great unpleasantness, great anxiety, which would progress to a debilitating point. Then, ever so suddenly, all those sensations would vanish.

These attacks only ever occurred during the nighttime, and only in the comfort of my own bed. If I was I visiting elsewhere, I would usually be okay. I found out quickly that turning on lights helped to hamper the panic attacks. There was always a trigger. A specific thought that would bring these on, that I was never able to fully ignore.

The panic attacks went on for years. Sometimes I would try to punch myself in the head when I felt them coming on, to try to knock myself out – and stop this altogether. Yet throughout all of this, I never wanted to see the doctor. To be honest, I can’t explain now why I was so against it. Maybe I had falsely convinced myself that I could overcome this on my own. Maybe I was embarrassed of being an adult incapable of behaving as such.

Things changed after I met Jay. He was always there to comfort me when I had the attacks, and he would continuously express his desire for me to talk to my doctor about it. Then it took a turn for the worse. The panic attack got to the level where I vomited in bed. Finally, I realized that I couldn’t go on like this. I went to see my doctor.

My physician recommended two things. One, he put me on Cipralex, which is a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor. The other, he strongly suggested, was for me to see a specialized psychotherapist. I had told him about the trigger for the panic attacks, and he suggested that this type of therapist would be able help me address it directly.

I’ve since concluded my sessions with the therapist. Though he was helpful in other aspects of my life, I really was unable to address my trigger. He thought I might have Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, but if that’s the case I don’t believe that to be the source of it. It exacerbates the situation, but it’s not the trigger.

What did help was Cipralex. It took months for it to kick in for me, but finally, for the first time since these panic attacks started, I’ve had a week of uninterrupted sleep. It’s such a wonderful thing, to be able to rest, to be able to dream once more.

I’m closing this off to comments. My apologies.

On December 7^th, 2010, the Supreme Court of Canada will, according to the National Post, examine “whether the common practice of hyperlinking can expose a writer to a lawsuit.” At the heart of the case is Wayne Crookes, who is described by the Montreal Gazette as a “former campaign organizer and financial backer of the Green Party of Canada.”

Crookes is alleging that blogger Jon Newton defamed him by having links that pointed to another website, which itself contains what Wayne Crookes believes to be defamatory content. The Montreal Gazette asserts that “Newton did not repeat the content, nor did he include any comment about the links“, and that as such, Crooke “lost [his original case] in the B.C. Court of Appeal, which upheld a trial judge’s decision that hyperlinks are like footnotes and do not constitute republication.”

However, Jon Newton is not the only person to have dealings with Mr. Wayne Crookes. Michael Geist, university professor and Canada Research Chair in Internet and E-commerce Law, was also previously targeted by Wayne Crookes. In Geist’s words:

I have not been served with the suit, but the reports indicate that I am being sued for an allegedly defamatory third party comment on my site that I took down and for writing about, and linking to, P2PNet.net, which in turn linked to another site that allegedly contained a defamatory posting. In other words, I’m reportedly being sued for maintaining a blogroll that links to a site that links to a site that contains some allegedly defamatory third party comments.

It should be noted that Crookes had also launched cases against Google, Wikipedia, as well as MySpace and Yahoo. It places into question as to whether, as one commenter put it, Crookes is a “vexatious litigant.”

I don’t believe that Crookes will succeed with the Supreme Court. Nevertheless, I remain concerned – because the case managed to get this far in the first place. It is my hope that the outcome with the Supreme Court of Canada is that it sets a precedent such that posting a hyperlink would not be tantamount to defamatory publication.

Otherwise, I myself would be open to lawsuit by posting this very article – because the opinions in the comments section of some of the sites I’ve linked to express less than favourable views of Mr. Crookes. Those views could consequently be perhaps perceived as defamatory, and I would be liable for having linked to them.

Follow the Case on the Supreme Court Website:
Summary, Factums, and Docket

PS. I apologize to my lawyer friends for any screw-ups with the use of legal terms in the above posting.

After much procrastination, I finally took the plunge and went to get myself tested for STIs and HIV. This is something that all sexually active individuals ought to do, regardless of how low the chances of them thinking they have any of the conditions are.

I had put it off because I had heard from more than one source that it hurt like hell. That they jabbed something up your urethra, and that it was really unpleasant. As it turns out, that procedure has since been replaced with a pee test.

The tests for STIs for me were as follows:

• Two swabs from the mouth. Painless.
• Pee in a cup. Painless.
• Two swabs from the rectum. Pleasurable.
• Blood draw. Painless.

The HIV testing is done by pricking your finger, and the results are instant – though interestingly enough, a test done today identifies whether you’re HIV negative or questionable 12 weeks ago. So having taken my test on September 23rd, I found out that on June 23rd, I was HIV negative. If I wanted to know whether I was HIV negative today, I’d have to take the test in 12 weeks.

The HIV test was the only one where the results were instant. For the others, the results come in about 3-4 weeks after the test. If you’re sexually active, I’d strongly suggest that you get tested – and contrary to popular belief: it doesn’t hurt!